Every fuck buddy has a sexual history. It is impossible to meet an f-buddy that does not! You see if you are looking for a fuck buddy it is because you really want sex, and if you want sex it is because you have had it before and you liked it. No one will go out of their way to try and get, say a deeper than ever pie unless they have already tasted a deeper than ever pie. They might desire to eat one, in the same way that before you had sex you knew already that you wanted to have sex, but until you have had sex you are highly unlikely to have the confidence and surety to find a fuck buddy.
Since every f-buddy has had sex before, everyone you will sleep with has a sexual history. This is normal, in fact it would be weird if they didn’t have a sexual history! This is a good thing – it is a great thing infact! No one can make someone come unless they already know how to come. By know, they don’t have to know it logically, they need to at least know it in their body, in their neither regions. If they have a sexual history, they likely know how to come, you don’t have to be the one to take them through that potentially difficult journey to learning about themselves. Great! You can get straight down to fucking! That’s fucking great!
However, there is a danger about become insecure. I have seen it many times, and that is not only in men or woman who have actual sexual issues. I have seen it in the greatest lovers, the mightiest men and the hottest women. I even once spoke to someone working in the adult film industry (yes they were a porn star) who had grown insecure about whether they were the best sex their partner had had. There is a cure to this, a permanent truth that protects you from the unhappiness and havoc that this idea can cause.
The best sex is the sex you are having right now. I will type that again to drum it in. The best sex, is the sex that you are having *right now*. The past is gone, it no longer exists as a reality. It is a mirage. The future does not exist and no one really knows what it will bring. The sex you are having now is real, present, it exists. No matter the lovers that your f-buddy had in the past, I don’t care if they say that they slept with the Olympic sex champion of the world – the best sex they are having is the sex they are having now, and if that if you then you are their current greatest lay, their most potent lover.
So put down your insecurities, set aside any doubts that you might have. You are the greatest lover that they have ever had. Know this to be a fact, because it is a fact.
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