The phrase ‘Women’s Lib!’ is often treated with suspicion by both guys and girls. Yet when it comes to sharing a hot night under (or on top of) the covers, ‘women’s lib!’ suddenly takes on an exciting and horny new angle. In short, women’s lib has been nothing but great when it comes to the world of casual sex and dating. Both women and men – many of whom are members on this site – are benefitting from enjoying casual relationships with no strings attached sex without any of the emotional complications a serious committed relationship can bring.
How is this a good thing?
The real question you should be asking is ‘How is women’s lib not a good thing for dating, casual or otherwise?’ Since women began taking control of their sexuality over a century ago a parallel rise in how we treat and talk about sex has also taken place. Sex is no longer something people are afraid to talk about frankly and openly. In fact it is thanks to many women that sex is no longer seen as degrading, dirty or wrong. Sex is great! Both men and women love it and treating it in an open and honest manner has made casual sex all the more acceptable and nothing to be ashamed of. Slut walks and other phrases intended to be insulting have been delightfully turned around to represent a generation of women who are taking control of their own sexual preferences and desires.
Incorrect Stigma
The pill, condoms and many other forms or contraception and protection against STDs have made casual sex safer and as a result a hell of a lot more fun to indulge in. As well as medical advances, the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s further enabled women to embrace their sexuality and openly indulge in recreational sex with a number of different partners.
“I see nothing wrong with having a number of different sexual partners as long as you’re open and honest with each of them about things. I was married for 6 years to a guy who ended up being a complete dickhead and sleeping with one of my best friends. The break up was hard, but it did show me that there were more options out there. Casual sex became a way in remembering to feel good about myself and realise that a break up isn’t the end of the world. At the end of the day we all crave physical intimacy and as long as you’re honest and safe with it, what’s the problem?”
Susan, 30, London, UK
How far should I go now?
The basic rule is that no one should do anything they’re not comfortable with. The sexual hedonism of the 60s and 70s has calmed to a point where casual sex is now treated with more respect and is a lot safer then it once was. As long as you’re honest, open and aware that casual sex means just that, then you should have no problem in engaging in some fun encounters with people.
Who knows, you might find a few play mates right here?
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