There are many things that will help to drive you to have sex with someone else. Many of them are specific to the person. You fancy them, they look like your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend, they are pretty, they are rich, they are poor, they share the same values as you, they happen to be there and you are horney, they are the only decent looking guy or girl at the party so by comparison they seem like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie. So many of these are to do with the specific person, and that is useless information. You cannot change who you are, so you can’t really “use” this. However,...