We are the film generation. We grew up on good quality films, and we are native to that. We are used to seeing stories told on the big screen (or little screen if you tend to watch things on DVD), we are used to things being carefully orchestrated and shot, people looking perfect and saying the exact right thing at the right moment. This includes everything including the way that sex is portrayed in films.
Sex in films is perfect. It starts slow with moving camera shots across perfectly lit skin. Both people (and it is usually a white man and woman) have clean glowing skin, the...