the game
Fuck buddies and self-esteem
Having a high sense of self-esteem has proven to be something that is key not just to happiness, but to our success in the world that we live in. People with high self-esteem get better jobs, earn more money, and are able to pursue the things that are going to make them happy (which leaves them happier). They are able to do this because they have a higher sense of belief in themselves and their ability. Often it is not because they think that they are any better at something, they just think that everyone can do it including them. This is not about having a big ego, I am not saying that...
Re entering the sexual market place: how to get back in the game if you have been out for a while
When you in the throes of dating people, when you have hit your stride, the whole thing seems easy! You are focused on having fun and enjoying the ride and so you do enjoy the ride. It is sometimes hard to remember what it was like when you were first re-entering the sexual marketplace, and how nervous and unsure you were at times. If you are reading this and you are in that place of just trying to get back on the horse and get back to dating, take heart. Soon you will be that person who wonders why people think it is difficult, because for you, it will have become simple fun!
So...
Playing The Game
Dating, and especially internet dating feels like a game of chess sometimes. Your opponent opens with the Queen’s gambit, you respond with the Knight’s Manoeuvre and eventually that castle comes out of nowhere to mate your King. How the hell did that happen? And why the hell do they give all these chess moves ridiculous names in the first place?
Those answers will have to wait for another time.
For now we want to talk about the huge game that finding a fuck buddy is and what (if any) rules there are and if you should follow them or break them.
The Game...
