Why married men are more attractive

It is not a surprise the number of married people that have affairs. I can look at it and understand that after you have been with the same person for a decade that your sexual needs may differ. When you first get together, you are both humping like rabbits. Early couples, in reality, are fuck buddies. They have found someone that they want to have a lot of sex with, if that is not a fuck buddy I am not sure what is! They become a “couple” when that progresses in other areas of their lives, but the best couples remain fuck buddies for life. However, this is a rare thing. For most couples, this tends to die off after a while. The flames of passion are extinguished, and the two-people become nothing more than friends with benefits where the “benefits” are few and far between. At this point, is it any wonder that men go off and have affairs?

What does come as a surprise is the number of single women that have affairs with married men. It is completely understandable that married people go off and have affairs, and the obvious way to do that would be to sleep with other dissatisfied married people. However what actually happens is that married men end up sleeping with single unmarried women much more than you would expect. Given the number of these women that are looking for more than fuck buddy, this seems like an unexpected turn of events. In reality, it is not. Married men are more attractive than unmarried men, and here is why.

• Married men are pre-validated. They must make good sexual partners, as someone has already chosen them as their only sexual partner!
• Married men have high sexual value. This value is determined on the basis that they are married, which makes them seem valuable.
• Married men are unattainable. As humans we all want we cannot have, a married man is, in theory, unattainable.
• Married men are “safe” to flirt with. Over time that flirting and sexual tension can build and become more, but the women allow it to start in the first place because the man is married.
• Married men with kids have proven themselves fertile. On some level we are attracted to people because they would make good mates and help bear children. A married man who has a child already has proven this beyond doubt, and is thus attractive for this reason.

Married men are more attractive for all these reasons, so as illogical as it may seem, you are more likely to hook up when you already have someone waiting to fuck your brains out at home.