I am going to put it right out there – if you are purely looking for basic sex without anything else, and you are calculating this on trying to find the quickest way of getting it, your best bet is to hire an escort or a prostitute. This is of course not what we do here at f-buddy, what we are looking to do is help you find a like minded person of the opposite sex for a more no strings attached meeting. The level of this can be entirely alterable based on what you are looking for of course, some people just want a quick one night stand, other people are looking for a medium term “friends with benefits” type of set up, the variations go on and on. Bringing this back to basics however, if you are looking for just a quick fuck then a prostitute is the way to go financially. However what you won’t get with a prostitute is true, it will be a lie.
What you most want when you have sex is one of two things:
• To take someone that wants you to take them
• To be taken by someone that wants you enough to take you
We all have jobs, and we all know that after a period of time in any job, we fall into a routine with it. Very few people love their jobs, and all of us have moments of not enjoying our jobs. When you sleep with someone you have paid for sex, you are unlikely to get the truth of them wanting you. On the rare occasion that you do, you can never be sure that it is the truth.
Why an F-Buddy gets great sex
With a fuck buddy, or a friends with benefits type set up, you know that the other person wants to be sleeping with you. You can trust in yourself that they when they scrape their fingers down your back – leaving red welt marks of passion behind to remind you of your night together - that they mean it. That they chose to have sex, and that brings a quality to the sex that cannot be underestimated. Sex without this is like food without salt, like cereal without milk. At best it is warm ice cream.
Find someone who wants to have sex and you both come out on top (unless you prefer to be on the bottom!)
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