This article is intrinsically negative as you can tell from the title. So in order to make sure that my position on the value of blow jobs is not misunderstood; I want to start by saying that blow jobs are unequivocally awesome. A good blow job can take a hardening penis and make it solid as a rock – to the benefit of both parties. A well timed tickle of the tongue on the tip (just below the head) can be enough to push a man over the edge into complete carnal desire, to the benefit of both parties. A blow job delivered in an unusual place, a lift, the cinema, from under the office desk whilst the man is still at work and trying to keep a straight face so that their colleges don’t notice that he is infact on the verge of shouting in extasy, can put a huge amount of zing and excitement into a relationship, to the benefit of both parties. So let me start by being completely clear on this. Blow jobs are amazing – if you are not getting them / doing them, you need to sort that out right now. Log into your account, so a search for someone who likes to give / receive blow jobs and get involved. This is not a suggestion, this is an order. Trust me, your life will be better for it.
So the problem with blow jobs... is simply that whilst to the layman it seems straight forward, people have extremely different tastes in terms of how they like them delivered.
Angle
For this article I am focusing on the angle. The position of the “giver” can make a huge difference. Is the receiver lying down on a bed, standing up or sitting down? The angle can make a huge difference both in terms of technique and overall effect. If someone is standing and the giver is on their knees, they will naturally pull the penis down to a horizontal position, putting a downward pressure on the shaft. Some people love this, other people are a LOT less keen. If you love it happy days, if you don’t then this can cause you to loose your hard on – that is bad for both of you.
There is also a question of view. Remember what you see can make a huge difference to how you feel – hence why we try and sleep with people we visually fancy. Some people really love the upward angle of the givers eyes looking up at them from their kneeling position, others like to see nothing but the top of their heads. Sometimes someone who is beautiful can be rendered ugly all of a sudden because actually they have a lumpy head – something you *never* noticed before being given your first blow job from them!
Regardless of you or your partners preference – remember that there is preference. Be aware of it and try and tailor your blow job to that.
Next time we will be discussing the actual blow job techniques.
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