We all love sex. It is one of the most natural things to do. It is warm, pleasurable, healthy to perform physically, brings people together mentally, is a great way to destress, and ultimately is one of the nicest things you can possibly do. There is nothing quite like it. Sex is the best. If more people had more sex, there would be world peace.
Sex is something that comes naturally to us. We have been doing it for thousands of years, and over that time we have gotten very good at it! That being said, we got good at the sex, I am not sure how “naturally” good we are at the foreplay.
When it comes to nature/nurture, it would seem that the act of having sex is part of our nature. Every man would have the instinct to put his penis somewhere, and every woman would have a gut instinct to want the man to put it inside her. That is part of us. However, when it comes to foreplay, I think that this may be something that we are taught, that is part of nurture rather than nature, and this includes blow jobs.
Blow jobs are amazing, for both men and women. For the man, it is something he can enjoy that is just for him, that takes place whilst he is no longer thinking about pleasuring his woman, he can just lie back and enjoy it. For the woman, it is her chance to give him something that he really likes, it can be a chance to tease, to twist, to wind him up in a way that puts her in charge. It can also be a really nice thing when she is just not up for it, but he really is.
Being good at blow jobs does not come naturally. It takes technique, time, and a little playing around to get a real feel for it. There is a set technique that you can follow, but to get really good is an art form.
So why bother? Getting good at blow jobs is an art form, but the joy it brings into both your lives is insurmountable. If you give a great blow job, the efforts he will go to in making sure that you come as hard as him are tangible. You will feel the reward directly, and for the whole of your life. Once you are good it, you will be good at it forever. This is well worth the time.
So get good at blow jobs. It is a life skill.
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