Why we want to fuck foreigners

When it comes to having sex, most of our desires and wants are driven from a place that has nothing to do with logic. Some people want to find a fuck buddy that is blonde for no other reason that as a child their babysitter was blonde and they liked them… and now they are an adult they don’t ever remember this! It means that their tastes, the things they look for in a fuck buddy come from an unremembered experience, making the choice completely illogical. This lack of control or predictability when it comes to the sexual marketplace is prevalent across nearly all tastes and preferences. Some people like it rough in bed because they are so used to being treated carefully and daintily in their day to day life. Other people like it rough in bed because their early sexual experiences were of having rough sex. Can you see how two opposing experiences can lead to the same end? There is seemingly no logic to it at all! All you can know is what you want from a hookup, and all you can do is try to be self-aware enough to chase down that which will make you happy. This is worth remembering, the goal here is happiness, everything else is just a means to an end.

Very often we want to have sex with someone that is very different to ourselves, we are naturally drawn to hit on and hook up with people from different countries and different places. To put it bluntly, we like to fuck foreigners. There may be random experiential reasons for this, but in addition to this, there is also a very logical reason, making this one of the few exceptions to the no logic rule.

We are built to seek the genetic variation. When we have kids, our genes combine to make their child. If one person has a defective gene, say they have a gene that gives them a heart problem, the baby, as it is growing, will naturally choose to use the other person’s gene, the one that builds a perfectly decent working heart. This means that we are looking for two things: someone who looks super healthy and without problems; someone who looks different enough from us that they have alternative genes to offer. Whilst most sex is had for pleasure, without any chance of children, our bodies do not know this. Our bodies still drive us to fuck our fuck buddies because it wants to procreate. This means trying to push us to find that beauty and variation of genes.

This is why we want to fuck foreigners so much. They look different, exotic, and our instincts want us to claim that genetic variation. So if you have never had a fuck buddy from a foreign land may I recommend that you go find one. You’ll be surprised how much better the sex can be when your body is desperate to have kids with your f-buddy!