It’s the same situation we’ve all faced at some point and it usually involves a fair amount of giggling, embarrassment, awkwardness and sometimes misunderstanding. When you’ve arranged to meet up with a fuck buddy sex is definitely on the cards. However a lot of people new to casual sex and even those who aren’t so new to it, worry about the best way to initiate sex!
Go figure!
So if you’re one of those people who do not have a problem hooking yourself up but struggles to actually initiate the down and dirty, then listen up as this guide below will help you overcome your sex nerves and do it with style and dignity.
Best Ways to Initiate Sex
1. Be prepared
No it’s not just the cub-scout motto – if you’re looking to get laid then you need to be prepared. Clear your schedule, buy some new underwear, check yourself in the mirror and basically get your mind ready for sex.
2. Be Straight and Open
You want to have sex. So why don’t you just say you want to have sex? It’s really quite simple and when done with total belief, makes it 100% more alluring and for most people a huge turn on.
3. Straddle
This is a tale end to being straight and open, but if you both start straddling each other then that is a pretty clear indication that you want to initiate sex.
4. Be clear
Some people call this ‘bottom lining it’ but it is essentially being totally clear on your desire to have sex before you begin to communicate it. Once it is clear in your head, you will automatically start broadcasting it to your fuck buddy when you meet up.
5. Be Regular
By this we mean try to have sex regularly once you start seeing a fuck buddy. Nothing is harder to initiate sex then a long dry spell – the previous methods will help break through that if that is what you’re suffering from – so having sex often will make you feel calmer and enable you to focus fully on it when you meet up. You won’t even worry about initiating; you’ll just do it automatically.
So there you have it; 5 simple ways to initiate sex honestly and without fear of embarrassment. You both know why you’re there so it’s now just a case of overcoming the initiation jitters. Applicable to both guys and girls, if you struggle give these rules a whirl and you may be pleasantly surprised by the results.
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