How often have you heard a woman you’re sleeping with talk about oral sex in front of you? My guess is ‘hardly at all’. Do you have any idea why that is?
Mostly it’s because they don’t want to hurt your feelings.
A lot of guys fuck up totally when going down on a woman. They either have no idea which area of the vaginal wall to play with or have absolutely no clue as to where the clitoris is. Yet we will happily go to town on a girl even when we fail to notice that she’s moaning not with pleasure, but with pity.
Ways to go down on your girl properly
To get over this ridiculous embarrassment guys have with asking a girl ‘So tell me, how would YOU like me to go down on you?’ we’ve provided a short list of ways you can get her off and guarantee great sex for the both of you.
1. Get Comfortable
If neither of you are relaxed, then how the hell are you going to enjoy sex? This goes double for your lady. If she’s not chilled and in a comfortable place you can forget any tongue twisting pleasure plans you had in mind. Get your girl relaxed. A friend of mind said the sexiest thing a guy said to her in bed was “Just get comfortable and lie back.” This instantly put her in a heightened mood for sex.
2. Best Position
Instead of plunging straight in try checking with her what position she feels most comfortable in. If she’s not sure then try putting a pillow under her ass which will lift her pelvic area up immediately giving you the best access to her vagina. It also allows you to spread her knees apart comfortably making her feel sexily exposed and excited.
3. Tongue Tease
Again most guys forget this. But instead of going straight for the clit, try licking her inner thighs teasingly with your tongue first. These areas are particularly sensitive and will get most girls gagging for you to go further in.
4. Hear what her body is saying
We communicate so much without saying anything. Pay attention to what her body is doing and the noises she is making. She will automatically shift position to what she feels is working best for her. Alter your movements and actions to match.
5. Don’t be afraid to use a vibrator
A little hand held assistance is never a bad thing. Help her come by using a vibrator as your co-pilot. The mere fact that you’re willing to do this will have her wetter then anything else you’ve tried before.
6. Crescendo to climax
The best bit to do when you’re getting into this is to start slowly then steadily get faster and faster alternating your movements with your tongue and syncing your rhythm with hers.
7. The Grand Finale…
…doesn’t always happen. Sometimes a woman can’t come even if you’re the best oral stimulator in the world. It’s not a reflection on your ability and doesn’t mean she hasn’t enjoyed herself – trust me if you’ve followed the earlier steps she’s in a very happy place. She might ask you to stop because she wants you to fuck her or just take a few minutes to calm down before starting again. Whatever it is don’t make your goal to make her come every time. Sex just for sex’ sake can often be all the pleasure a girl needs.
Heads down guys and pay attention!
Happy fucking!
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