So you’ve got yourself a sexy new fuck buddy. Congratulations! However just as is natural, you begin to wonder how long the arrangement will last. This depends entirely on the individuals involved.
How often should you meet up?
Once you’ve got the horn it is incredibly hard to stay away from the person you’ve been fucking. This is an erotic ‘fantasy-made-reality’ you’re both playing out and the effects can be intoxicating. Hormones take over and before you know it you’re a chemical bag of pheromones just aching to have that sexual itch scratched as often as possible. Like most itches though, if you scratch too hard, you can leave a sore red mark behind.
Patience for Pleasure
Hooking up for sex with someone regularly can be great, but you shouldn’t be seeing them every day or even every week. For a fuck buddy style relationship to last longer than a month then you should heighten the excitement by keeping your distance. Hook up with them when you can feel the sexual tension reach close to breaking point. By doing this the sex will be pretty spectacular as you’ll be ravenous for it! And if this means holding off for more than a week or two, then do it!
Fuck buddies who meet up twice a week or more soon end up losing interest or one person starts developing stronger feelings beyond sex. There is nothing wrong with this, but if you’re not looking to enter a long term relationship, then maintaining an exciting distance from your buddy is essential.
How long should you go on seeing your fuck buddy?
This depends entirely on the chemistry you have with each other. If you are both red hot horny the first time you meet, then the fuse may burn fast and the whole thing may fizzle out after only a few hook ups. This is fine as it leaves you both free to seek out new exciting partners. There is also the added benefit of neither party spending enough time together in order to develop stronger feelings.
There is another side of the coin to this though.
Sometimes you may meet up with a fuck buddy, but you may not be instantly attracted to them. There is a spark, but you’re not sure if it’s going to burst into flame yet.
So you withdraw and maybe hook up with them again the next month.
This time the spark is stronger and you feel a more intense heat to the situation. The sex is better and you both enjoy it more.
But again you withdraw and leave it a few weeks before seeing them again.
The next time you meet the sex is incredible and you’re both so hot for one another that you end up fucking like bunnies for hours on end. The sexual attraction is now so strong that you can’t wait to see your buddy again…but you don’t! Again you leave it for another week. Why? Because the sexual excitement you’ve generated will build again if you leave it for a while.
By doing this you can maintain a fuck buddy for longer than a month and can even have the same one going for up to several months.
Keeping it simple and fun!
Approximately 1 in 5 fuck buddy or friends with benefits arrangements develop into stronger long term relationships. There is nothing wrong with this - as we’ve discussed in other posts it can actually be very healthy to have a fuck buddy in order to learn what you like in order to maintain a long term relationship. However the primary reason you’re using this site is to find and meet other attractive singletons who are just looking for a no strings attached burst of sexual pleasure.
However long the arrangement lasts with one or more fuck buddies depends entirely on you.
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