Men are often accused of being addicted to porn but several studies published worldwide have shown women to be as equally in love with porn. We love porn mostly because it can be an aphrodisiac to casual sex. Like anything used excessively of course we recognise that it can be harmful but like the old saying goes “everything in moderation”.
Why is porn great?
At its best porn is a gushing celebration of the human body in all its different shapes and styles. At its worst porn can be an addictive obsession that infiltrates your life in a very bad way. The trick is in finding the right balance. In terms of a fuck buddy porn can be a great way to give you ideas on new positions/scenarios/toys to try with your partner.
Porn can help you engage your imagination especially if you’re nervous about trying something new. In the words of one woman:
“I love porn. I love its capacity to enrich our highly stressful time poor lives. I am zealous about using it with new partners as it often leads to a lot of fantasies coming true.”
How to use porn in your casual encounters?
Most people are far more interested in having sex rather than watching it, but porn can make sex even more stimulating. Try the following methods to see how you can use porn in a casual hook up.
1. Watch a porno together
A classic for first time users. Settle down in front of the TV and pop a porno in the DVD player (or fire up a video on your laptop). Pick a movie that takes its time to build before the actors start having sex. You can start playing with each other at the same time mimicking the action on screen and building towards your own orgasms.
2. Make a porno together
This one is only recommended if you both trust one another. The last thing you want is a sex tape of yourself on the internet…unless you want to do a Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton and become famous for having sex. Shooting yourselves having sex can be a huge turn on so if you agree terms give it a whirl.
3. Act out a porno scenario
A safer way to use porn without a camera is to act out your own porno scenario. Arrange a hook up and role-play yourselves into ecstasy.
Porn isn’t a substitute for skin on skin experience but it is an enhancement.
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