Soundtrack your sex

Having great sex is about more than just the actual act of having sex. Let us say for a moment that it is a given that you are going to get laid and do the actual act of having “the sex”. If you are a man you are going to put your penis inside someone else, and if you are a woman you are going to have something put inside you (most likely a penis – but we don’t like to judge here at f-buddy. As long as your aim is to have great sex and show the other person a good time you are welcome here!). So the physical side of this is guaranteed... so if it is on the cards and all sorted, why bother doing anything else? Why not just go home and get laid? The answer: quality.

Can you come?
The quality of the sex that you have is determined clearly by how well you have learnt to come. If you know how to come and come well, then you are ready to have a really good time. No one, no matter how good they are in bed can give that to you – so get this sorted first.

Can the other person come?
The same is true for them. If they don’t know how to come then they won’t. Your enjoyment to some degree is tied up in theirs, so it is important that they have this side of things sorted as well.

Are you on the same page?
Being on the same page when having sex is really important. If you know that the other person is totally on board with what is happening and into it, you can really let go and have a good time. This is where having a fuck buddy really comes into its own! The clear understanding of what you are all doing means that you can really let go and have a great time!

So once you have that.... go for music!
So once you have the basic building blocks in place, and you are looking to make the setting more exciting, the mood better, or something to enhance the sex, what should you reach for first? Many people think about toys, or alcohol, or other sex enhancers... but you have something even simpler right there. Music.

Soundtrack it like a film
We all identify with films – so soundtrack your sex like in the movies and it will push emotion higher. That kick directly affects your pleasure levels. So quickly put on some music – or better yet put together a sex soundtrack and see how easily things are more fun. This is your sexual quick win right here!