There are many things that drive us to have sex, and many things that will alter the quality and the intensity of the sex. It is about so much more than the actual act of having sex. It is about what it is happening underneath all of that, all the elements that come together to form your sexual experience go so much further than that of just the physical aspects.
Emotion is motion
One of the biggest elements that lie underneath it all is your emotion. Emotion is fundamental to how we connect with people, how we see the world, how we interact with the other humans that cross out paths. It is our emotional connection to people that make us want to see them, spend time with them, fuck them. Emotion is at the core of all of this, and for the most part we cannot control this aspect.
We don’t choose
We do not get to choose how we feel about people, for the most part. We can alter it, we can choose how we express that, but we do not get to make a logical choice about it. We just feel a certain way. So what I am going to talk about here, is what we do about it. How we can use it.
When you feel an emotion about someone, ride it
If you are available, either because you are single or you are in a friends with benefits situation that leaves you open to meeting other people, then if you find a strong emotion about someone you need to use it. If you see someone that you are attracted to, that you see and you think you would really love to fuck, you need to go over there and hit on them. You might think that this sounds scary, but I can assure you, if you are riding a genuine emotion, then you will find that the emotion itself will help to drive you. The other person will find it super attractive, for there is nothing sexier than being wanted. If your emotion is real, they will know it.
Emotional sex is the best
If emotion is behind everything, it stands to reason that it is also underneath sex too. The more emotional you are, the more you will “feel” when you are having sex. High emotions will cause a deeper experience, and a more connected sexual experience. So if the emotion is there, whether it is you or them, ride it (or ride them, or have them ride you etc!).
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