They say there is a first time for everything, and this is, of course, true! Your first steps, your first word, your first school, your first crush, your first kiss, and yes, even your first fuck. The first time that you have sex, it is never great. There is excitement and insecurity and a massive lack of skill and knowledge that is required to have objectively good sex. That being said, it can often be really special. The first time that you have a fuck buddy can be a similar experience.
When you are a virgin, you probably spent a long time thinking about sex before actually having it. You talked to your mates about it, you imagined it, you probably even took some tips from the internet. The same is true with a fuck buddy. The idea of having a no strings attached relationship can be very exciting. All the benefits of sex with none of the downsides that come with the long term relationship. Most people think about it, perhaps talk to their mates about it, probably look to the internet to find out more about it which may be why you are reading this article! Thinking is good, but nothing can happen until you take action.
Taking action to get your first fuck buddy can be daunting. Doing something new is often difficult as it involves stepping outside of your comfort zone. You have to take a bit of a leap of faith. Jumping in and trusting that there is everything to gain and nothing to lose by trying it. Once you have a fuck buddy, you will find out if it is for you.
For many people, one of the big nerves about having their first fuck buddy is whether it is “okay” to do it. Many people have been raised to think that sex should be in a monogamous relationship only. Getting over this in order to open the door to having something that is a booty call and nothing more can be hard. The only way to really prove it to yourself is to do it. After the first time you have sex with a fuck buddy, you will realise that everything is alright! The world has not ended, all that has happened is joy between two consenting adults.
If you have never had a fuck buddy, now is the time to give it a go. The first time you booty call someone (or are booty called by someone) is a very special moment. Like the first time you had sex you will always remember it.
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