If you have a fuck buddy sorted already, you may be looking to take things up a notch. Sex is great, but there are always things you can do to make it better for both you and your fuck buddy. Making an effort to improve things in the bedroom is the best way to achieve exactly that! It will be good for both your fuck buddy, the more fun you are having, the more fun they will be having. If you really like your fuck buddy, keeping things fluid by trying different things and mixing it up is a great way to make it feel like things are changing for the both of you. This makes it much more likely that they will come back again and again, extending the length of your fuck buddy relationship. So without any further ado, here are some top tips to help you spice things up for both you and your fuck buddy.
Focus on intimacy
You may think that you are already doing it, given that you have a purely physical relationship with whomever you are hooking up with. However, cutting away the traditional relationship does not mean that you have increased the time that you spend being intimate. Before having sex, spend time exploring each other’s bodies. Really get to know each other physically and spend time together naked or near naked without having sex. Taking your intimacy up a notch will make the sex all the better, for both of you.
Your orgasm is your responsibility
Taking responsibility for you own orgasm is really important. Whether you are a man or a woman, make sure that you have spent time bringing yourself to climax, really getting to know your own body. If you cannot come alone, it is going to be all the harder after you have hooked up.
Make time for sex
With everything that is going on, with the busy lives that we all inevitably lead, make sex a priority. Make sure that you ringfence time to have it. That could be by booking in dates where you know the likely end will involve clothes that do not belong to you on your bedroom floor. If it is, I applaud you!
Play sex games
Sex games are a lot of fun! They can be simple and easy, using a set of sex dice to randomise what you are going to do to each other is a great entry game to play. You can get as imaginative as you like with this, so be bold and brave here.
Spicing up your sex life is the best way to have a fuck buddy keep coming back for more. It will also make your sex life better, since you are the one living it! Remember the golden rule, make sure you are having fun!
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