Having a fuck buddy is all about having a great time in bed. It is all the best parts of the physical aspects of a relationship with none of the annoying and draining parts of a long term relationship. You are there to pleasure each other physically, that is all. One of the most powerful things about this focus is that they sex can get really good. As the primary focus is the sex, as this is a no strings attached relationship, you spend all your energy on that. There is no wasted time and effort on other, less important things. You look to giving your partner and yourself the most mind blowing sexual experience that you can. This can lead to outstanding results.
Foreplay is an important part of that experience. Fore includes almost anything that happens before the actual sex: kissing, rubbing skin, playing with each other’s nipples or chests, telling each other what you are going to do to them verbally… the list is endless. One of the very common things is oral sex. Oral sex is excellent for everyone. The person getting it loves it, the person giving it can enjoy it just as much. The power from making your partner come is an important satisfier as much as coming yourself. Blow jobs are excellent for this… but when it comes to blow jobs, a question that often arises is: should I spit or swallow? Let’s start with some facts.
Can you get pregnant from swallowing semen?
No. There is no way that swallowing come can get you pregnant. You have to still be cautious about moving the semen from your mouth to your vagina of course, but that is rarely an issue in practice.
Can you get other diseases from swallowing semen?
Passing fluids between people can transmit diseases, so it can in the same way that kissing the other person can, and if you have someone’s come in your mouth you likely have already had their saliva in it as well! That being said if the person has an STI (sexually transmitted disease) then that can be transmitted, so it is good to be safe if you do not know if they have had an STI test recently.
Is spitting or swallowing better?
This really is a personal choice, but swallowing is easier. That is not to say it is the right choice for you, you should do whatever you most want to do. Some people get a turn on by swallowing, and some men are turned on by having their semen swallowed, but really it is up to you.
So the answer is really to do what you want to do, but I hope that the extra information above makes you more comfortable in making that choice.
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