So much has been written about this that it hardly seems worthwhile talking about it. However there are always unexplored aspects of the question. Basically we want to know what impact underwear has to the sexual drive of men and women (if any). We’re pretty sure we knew the answer from the off, but the results were still surprising.
What underwear does to the libido
If you’re just dressed in an old pair of boxers or a comfortable pair of granny pants, then the chances of creating some sexual excitement in the bedroom are slim to zero. You can get all hot and steamy for the foreplay, but the moment you realise someone hasn’t bothered to make an effort down below is the moment the libido slows down significantly.
“We’re very visual creatures. Sexually we’re stimulated by what we see in front of us. A clean pair of briefs or thong can go a long way to increasing the libido of both men and women.”
Dr G Carter
Sex Therapist
What Dr Carter says is accurate. The type of underwear worn will always have a positive or negative effect on the sex, particularly when it comes to casual sex.
“When you have sex with someone for the first time you need to make an effort. First impressions count and if I see a scruffy old pair of ill fitting boxers, I’m immediately turned off.”
Hayley
F-Buddy Member
So how do you make your underwear sexy?
One of the top pieces of advice given by our members is simple: wear underwear that makes you feel sexy. If you feel sexy just by putting on a particular thong or pair of briefs then that sexiness will radiate from you to your partner. You’ll both be in the mood for sex even before you get down to your underwear.
Another good piece of advice is to set the mood. If you know you’ve got a fuck buddy coming around for some fun, try answering the door in just a robe or a very revealing outfit that hints of what lies beneath. This kind of fashion foreplay serves to increase the sexual tension to a red hot level ensuring that both of you have mind blowing sex.
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