having sex when depressed
After almost two (2) years of drought, sex is easier to find
The covid-19 pandemic was devastating to our way of life. Businesses closed, social gatherings were banned, and you could only meet up in limited numbers. It was a tough time for all involved and the reduction in our interactions did not just end with an inability to be able to go to for a drink, it also had a huge impact on the number of sexual partners we were meeting.
People reduced the amount of sex they were having for a number of reasons. In many cases, this was caused by an inability to meet lots of other available people face to face. With the social gathering places shut...
Feeling lonely? Feel a fuck buddy!
Life is far from perfect. There are always ups and downs to everyone’s lives. There are times when things are good and times when things are bad. That is the nature of things. In some parts of our lives this is easy to measure. In work, you can look at how much money you are earning and use that as a yardstick. With your family you look to see how often you are invited to things or called on the phone, then think about how much fun and joy you take in the company of your loved ones and base it on that. When it comes to relationships, the easy currency to measure things by is sex.
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Is it a good idea to have sex when you’re feeling low?
One word answer: Yes.
End of post.
Only kidding!
That was a very flippant and lazy response to an awkward question.
Vulnerability
The one consistent thing that always happens when you’re not feeling 100% is that you feel vulnerable. Being physically and/or emotionally exhausted means that you’re more open to suggestion then you usually are. When it comes to sex this can lead you in strange directions. It’s a bit like when you’re a student for the first time and you have this sudden freedom with low to no consequences. All of a...
