In order to get the sex you want, you have to understand what turns guys and girls off as well as on. To that end, we’ve created a few tips and hints to help you all get the best sex from your fuck buddy. How did we achieve this? Simple; we asked men and women. Pay attention class; this advice will help you get your end away in more ways then one. Ladies first…
Women’s biggest sexual turn offs
1. Drunkenness
Guys you might think you’re Don Juan when you’ve downed a few at the bar, but to women overt drunkenness is a huge turn off. It’s hard to get aroused by someone fumbling with a bra clasp. You want to get laid? Sober up when you see your lady and pay attention to what she wants!
2. Grinding
Whether it’s in a club or at home, simply grinding away against her thigh like a frustrated Alsation is not going to get you into her knickers. It’s more likely to get you a restraining order. Cut the grinding; it’s not pretty for either of you.
3. Checking yourself out
The advent of smart phone technology has meant we all like pricks when walking down the street apparently talking to thin air. Guys do this more then women and for women seeing a bloke chat on his Bluetooth and looking all smug is on a par with a guy checking himself out in the mirror - one of the biggest turn offs ever. Don’t overestimate your own sense of importance and put the phone away.
4. The Cheesy Pick Up Line
There are masters of Pick Up (see ‘The Game’ by Neil Strauss), but the cheesy lines just don’t work on 99.9% of women. Want to get a girl into bed? Leave the lines at home and concentrate on natural seduction. Again take a look at some of the literature on this as it can be very effective. Cheesy lines are not.
5. Bad Breath
Simply hygiene will always win the day with women. If your breath smells like the leftovers from last night’s bar crawl then you’re more likely to spend the night alone with a box of Kleenex and some hand cream then you are with a woman. Fresh breath and good personal hygiene will stand you in good stead with the ladies.
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