We all want to have amazing sex. We all want to have our minds blown to another place entirely when we get involved with the act of sleeping with someone else. Either we want to really fuck someones brains out, or we want to have our brains fucked out of our skulls by someone else. Either way – a good hard fuck is defiantly on the menu.
There are many ways that we can achieve this, and many methods to build up to this. In this article I want to talk about sexting – the art of texting dirty!
The build up
It is not just about the actual sex itself, a lot of good sex is in the build up, and one of the easy ways you can ensure a good build up is with a decent amount of sexting. The more you can get the other person thinking about sex in the run up to it the better the sex will be. Remember it is all about getting them wanting to have sex – the build up. The more you can do that the closer you get to a mind blowing fuck.
When to start texting
Timing is important. Unless you are super skilled I wouldn’t start more than 8 hours before the time you are going to see them. You want it in the back of their head – but a 24 hour tease is really hard to pull off unless you are really skilled. So to start with go for sending your first text 8 hours before.
What to send
Start slow. You are thinking about them... allude to thinking about what may happen later in the evening. Going sensory is a really great idea. Sights, smells, touch... comment about the things you genuinely love about having sex with them. The feeling of their legs wrapped around your body, the way their breath on your ear as they moan really turns you on. You can be as explicit as you like – building up to the more explicit things is a good way of doing it.
Get them involved
Make sure you get them involved. If you can get them to message you back, to text you what they like, what turns them on – then you have got them 100%! Once they have bought into it and are sexting back, they are fully engaged with thinking about wanting to have sex, and you are winning.
Avoid!
Things to avoid are:
- Getting scared and be too tame. The bolder you are the better
- Mis types / auto corrects that ruin what you are saying
- Bad spelling can be a killer – big difference between wrapping a girls legs around your “waist” and your “waste”.
Go forth and sext!
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