think before you fuck
Why is there always a pause before the sex starts?
It is very rare that you meet up with someone and jump straight in the sack. In the films, characters often meet up, and they are taking each other clothes off during the small talk stages. Sadly this does not reflect life. When you meet up, there is a process of spending time together before you jump into the sack, a time of acclimatisation. This is no bad thing. Half of orgasm is about the state of your mind and emotions, and this crucial time gives you the space to “warm” up your partner. It does not matter how much they want the sex, or even how in agreement you are on it! This could...
Sleeping with someone you’re not attracted to
It sounds strange but sleeping with someone you’re not physically attracted to happens more often than you think. The physical need just to have sex often overrides the more rational side of your brain. You feel horny, and you just want to fuck. We’re not here to blame you for feeling that way – it happens to everyone. However we are here to try and get you to think a little before jumping into bed with the first person you meet.
Sometimes we just want to have sex and it doesn’t really matter who with. However it should matter and here are the reasons why:
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