How long do you wait before texting a fuck buddy?
Finding a fuck buddy is a process. That process can sometimes be really quick. Maybe you are out for the night, you see someone you like, you go over and it is instant chemistry! Bam – you both head back together to yours/theirs and you have a great night together. The next day you roll over and you still like what you see, and they do as well, so you exchange numbers and before you know it you have a fuck buddy on speed dial! It can happen like that. For a lot of people though, it does not happen as easily as this. For most people there is a bit of a process that has to take place on the...
Hooking up in Ireland this Christmas
Christmas in Ireland is such a lovely time to be there. The lights come out, the pubs have more people in them, everyone is in a better mood. Christmas is also a great time to find a fuck buddy in Ireland. Why and how you might ask? Well all me to explain it to you.
More people want to find a fuck buddy during this time
At Christmas we are bombarded with pictures of people having a great time, Christmas films about people finding other people to sleep with, the whole kissing under the mistletoe thing suddenly comes out in force. Christmas is a time of being inside, in the...
Finding a fuck buddy: cities vs rural areas
When it comes to finding a fuck buddy, people say that it is a numbers game. There is some truth in this. The more people that there are to chose from, the more likely you are to find someone that you are compatible with. With a large pool of people the system as a whole is more forgiving. If you make mistakes or are still learning, you have the opportunity to make mistakes with people, learn from that and then never see them ever again. You also can test things out more boldly because of the large pool of people. Want to try something a bit unusual during the courtship phase, go for it!...
SMS, WhatsApp, Signal and Threema messages to send to your fuck buddy the day afterwards
When it comes to adult dating, texting and instant messaging are now a staple part of the courtship ritual. Of course, nothing beats in person contact or face to face meetings, but in order to make those meetings happen you have to accept that communication using the written word is necessary. We no longer live in a world where you just pick up a phone and call someone, you really do text, WhatsApp, or for the more security-minded perhaps you are using Threema or Signal instead. Regardless of the platform that you are using, texting (or sexting) is now the way that you make things happen...
How to establish a fuck buddy relationship at work
Work can be an excellent place to find a fuck buddy, and if you do manage to get one, the rewards of doing so are huge. Firstly you get all the extra excitement of sleeping with someone in the office and trying to keep it quiet for as long as possible. The sneaking around, the talking to each other over the office cooler without giving off the vibe that you are into each other, the arranging clandestine meetings in the stationary cupboard or after work in a local drinking hole that you both “happen” to be in at the same time, alone without anyone else. It is all very fun.
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Fuck buddy disaster – the condom broke!
When having sex with a fuck buddy, it is always a good idea to use a condom. With a man and a woman, it may well be that the woman says she is on the pill and that deals with the contraceptive issue. If it was me, as a man, and I was new to that fuck buddy I would still use a condom. Why? Well, firstly I would want the comfort of knowing that things were safe, that there would be no potential pregnancy in play. A condom gives me that security. Secondly, I would use a condom for protection from STDs and other diseases. It is “probably” fine, but personally, I would like to be 100% sure....
It is not what you are like, it is what you like that matters when finding a fuck buddy
When it comes to the art of seduction and forming connections with members of the preferred sex in order to, well, have sex with them, we often say it is about who you are. When two people come together, whether that is because they want to be friends, friends with benefits, fuck buddies or they are just looking to hook up for the night, everyone is looking for that “spark”. The “spark” that we are looking for is seen to be about who we are. As magnesium explodes when put into water, so we think that when we meet someone that does the spark for us it is an uncontrollable, unpredictable and...
How to not get pregnant when with a fuck buddy (for women)
Being someone’s fuck buddy is the best. You get to have sex whenever you want it, you get to be the person that they call on whenever they want to have sex so you feel wanted, oh and lastly, did I mention the sex?! Having a no strings attached relationship really is great, but the one thing you don’t want are any surprise stings appearing. One of the most difficult ones is if you get pregnant. That would be bad, very, very bad. So, to help with that, here are the steps you can take to ensure that you never get pregnant accidentally.
Take the pill
Taking the pill is...
Why people are hornier in the summer
The summer is coming in and as long as you live in the northern hemisphere, the world is about to become a hornier place! We all have individual times where we are more or less horny, and those levels of hormones can drive us to do certain things and affect our decision making. The phrase “think with your d*ck” came from somewhere after all! I would like to mention that there is no judgement made in this article. There are times when allowing yourself to be driven by your emotions and hormones can be a good thing! Being driven by hormones can help you take action when you would otherwise...
Why hitting on someone in the summer can be more intimidating but you are more likely to be successful
Summer is a peak period for finding someone of the opposite sex for adult dating. According to research by the Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine, summer really is the time that the most people have sex. This is not just hearsay evidence. Studies have been carried out, data has been analysed and results have been scrutinised. After all that work was done, it told us something that I could have told you off the top of my head without any need for all the time, effort and expense involved in the many studies that were carried out. More people are having sex in the summer than any other...