Sex is brilliant. I mean of all the things in the world that one can do, there is something about it that is more satisfying that anything. It is free to do, costs nothing to continue doing, and both you and the person you are doing it with benefit from it. There are no losers, when two people have sex, you end up with 2 winners on your hands. The anticipation in the run up to can be one of the most exciting rides that you can have, the pleasure when you are having it rarely is an anti climax to the build up. It is an activity where you are completely in the moment, everything else in the world just fades out, ceases to exist in that moment. All your work, your cares, your issues and problems, your successes and victories, they all cease to exist in the moment that you are having sex. It is one of the best things, and something that will change and alter your entire life.
You want to have exciting sex, not all the time, but some of the time you are going to want to have exciting sex. Probably more when you are in the early stages of the relationship, then again likely when you are rekindling things after you have had kids or when things have calmed down a little for you and you have been together for some time. So how can you bring a little excitement to the sex session? There are many easy ways – here is one!
Forget the bedroom – have hot kitchen sex!
One of the easiest things to mix up is the location of the sex! The easiest thing to do is to head to the bedroom, but if you want to add excitement, have sex somewhere that is a little taboo, somewhere that you “shouldn’t” have sex. The Kitchen is the perfect place for this. Everyone has a kitchen, so you already have the place ready to go. It is where you prepare your food, so you shouldn’t really be spilling bodily fluids all over it! That is most definitely naughty – and naughty is exactly what you are aiming for with this. It doesn’t really matter where in the kitchen you do it, it can be the floor (everyone had a kitchen floor), just do it in the kitchen! It is as easy as that. Don’t warn your partner, just do it spontaneously, without warning or planning. If you have a breakfast bar I highly recommend using it – makes for really satisfying angles! Bending her over a worktop and taking her from behind is also tremendous fun for both of you.
So try it in the kitchen – I think you’ll love it!
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