Why are men obsessed with sex?

According to a survey men would spend at least 4 hours a day having sex and a maximum of 3 working. We know that pretty much most men spend at least 2 hours a day thinking about sex. Why is this? Well simply put men are encouraged to compete with each other from a very young age. We are trained that emotional connections signify ‘weakness’ and opening ourselves up any such connection could weaken us greatly. So when we have sex and experience the warmth and pleasure of a naked hot body next to us all these repressed feelings shoot out. Sex can suddenly become an addiction. All of a sudden this new pleasure makes men want more and more.

Personal experience
I was having casual sex with 2 girls a few years back and to this day I still find myself thinking about how awesome that time was. This is despite the fact that neither girl was particularly good for me. One was ten years younger, immature and tried to blackmail me into being her boyfriend despite the mutual agreement that the arrangement was just casual. The other was a few years younger than me and was happy to engage in casual sex occasionally. Both however were not the right women for me. Yet I still think about how amazing it was to sleep with one and sleep with another less than 24 hours later. I felt like the ultimate alpha male. And I realised this had a lot to do with a silly competition me and a few other friends were having. Casually titled ‘Girlfriend Hunt’, we were all going out and sleeping with women in order to find a girlfriend. However it soon became a points based battle as to who could sleep with the most people. I soon realised I didn’t even care that much about the women I slept with as long as I got some and got gone. I’d removed the pleasure from sex.

How to know when your obsession is getting out of control
If you start spending more and more time organising your next hook up and start forgetting about other aspects of your life then you know you might have a problem. Casual sex is great but like anything that feels good, too much can cause problems. It’s very important that you exercise a level of discipline so you can enjoy your casual sex experience.