In life there are many big Choices That We Make Over the course of our Years. When We Are Young we may be given the choice of which school to attend, if our parents don't make that choice for us. As we progress through school we are given the choice of what subjects we want to study, what after school activities we would like to participate in, what sports to join in on or games we want to play. Once we leave school we certainly have the choice of when you want to carry on studying (going to university being with typical choice) or whether we want to go straight into the world of work. But those of us who do go straight to work we then of course have the choice of which industry we want to work in. For many people this is one of the biggest life choices we can make, as we spend more time at work than anywhere else. The maths on that is pretty clear, 8 hours a day at work 5 days a week means you spend more time at work than any other single activity in your entire life.
There are many factors that we take into account when making these decisions, and for most of us if asked why we did x or y, we will give a very logical sounding reason. However what people rarely admit, is that underneath a lot of this is sex. Yes, you heard me right, sex. It is surprising how many of our big decisions are guided or in fact completely dominated by our Desire for sex. Don't believe me? Well, and now we could take you through a few of the big examples.
What subjects to study at school
This won't apply to everyone, but when you are at school, and you were about to make the choice of which subjects to continue studying, if you fancied a girl at the time this would have made a big difference to your choices. For example, if you fancy meet the blonde Jenny and she was doing geography, the chances are you charged to do geography. In your aged state now you may not specifically remember this, but if you think back to those choices if you really fancy someone (and I mean really fancy someone) you will have made a choice to have spent more time with them. This is not a poor decision, because proximity is power, and the more time you spend with someone the more likely you are to end up going out with them. Fact.
The choice to go to university
It's true that some people go to university to study. They find a subject people really want to pursue, and then they go to university in order to learn more about that subject. There are even some Industries where you have to go to university if you wish to work in, for example medicine or the law. So for those people perhaps they went to university in order to pursue their chosen career. For the rest of us many people went to university to have a good time. Having a good time very much includes meeting women. Everybody knows that in me no consequence environment that is University having sex becomes much easier than in the real world. This means that for a lot of people, Their choice to go to university was made because they wanted to have sex. Once again I am not saying this was a bad decision, because getting laid at university is much easier in the real world. Fact.
The decision to make money
I get another job is all about making money. The type of job you choose will change both the amount of money you can earn but also the amount of hard work you have to put it in. Typically the jobs where you are and what money require you to spend more of your time doing. Typically the ones that pay alot of money also aren't a lot of fun, and whilst this isn't always true it is the general trend. So why on earth would someone choose to spend all their free time working when they could be out having fun? The answer you may already have guessed is sex. The more money you have the easier it is to get laid. The more money you have the more attractive you can be to the opposite sex as you arrive in your fast car walkthrough in your fancy suit, and order the most expensive drink in the bar. This works, and therefore is not entirely a bad choice. Facts.
Conclusion
My point here is not to have a go at anyone's for making my choices based on sex. In many ways I'm actually saying the opposite. Sex is one of the most important parts of our lives, and therefore we should be paying a lot of attention to how we are getting it, the quality of our sex lives, and the people we are choosing to have sex with. What I am saying, is that acknowledging how much effort we spend on sex rather than ignoring it, may put you in a better position to pursue it. And on that note I wish you all the best in getting laid.
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