If you break – always have break up sex

Breaking up with a fuck buddy is never easy, even if you are the one doing the break up. It is hard, you are insulting the other person’s identity in a way that can never be cushioned. Even with a strict no strings attached relationship, there can be a moment of hurt. It is easier in this setting, because you were clear about it when you signed up to it in the first place, that does not stop it from still being a difficult thing to do / have done to you.
There is on clear silver lining when ending a fuck buddy, you can hook up with them again one last time, and you can have break up sex.

We love unique things

As humans we love it when something is unique and different from everything else that we have done in the past. It is excellent if it is new. We love special edition releases of films, 1st edition books are worth far more than their less rare later counterparts, due to their rarity. When going to restaurants, we love to try new food and new dishes. A change is as good as a break. The same is true with sex. We change the time, the position, the strength and voracity of it, the roughness, the speed and the feel. We have happy sex, frustrated sex, unstoppable lust driven sex. The one thing that most people don’t have is angry sex. When you are in relationship, if you are angry you are simply not having sex.

Break up sex is authorised angry sex

You can be really angry with the person, and have sex with them, and that is acceptable. It is the one time that you can both ride that emotion, and you can do it for real. You can try and fake it, but that never works. If the anger is real whilst still in a hook up setting, then you don’t have sex. What allows the sex to still happen, is that you are never going to see each other again, so you make an exception.

Great sex is emotion – and this is emotion on speed

The emotion of a break up is huge. It is so massive, so overwhelming, it heightens everything. This includes the sex. You can have a sexual experience unlike any that you have ever had in your life before. Every been slapped then fucked the girl? Well here is your chance.

So if you have a break up, take advantage of it. Have break up sex.