sex

There is this belief that in a club, if you see a girl wearing very little material and flashing a lot of skin, that she is looking for someone to sleep with. That if you are looking to hit on someone, you want to go with the girl in the short skirt first over the girl in the ankle length dress if you are looking for an easy fuck. Well I am hear to set the story straight.

If a girl goes out to a club deliberately wearing clothes that show off her best assets, that allow people to see the fine figure that she has, the curve of her breasts, the voluptuousness of her firm yet supple...

Thanks to television and films, mostly romantic comedies, we believe that finding someone to sleep with or even date is an act of fate. It is something that will just come along and we need do nothing to help it happen. Wrong. This is the lie that we are sold. Whether it is sex we are looking for or a soul mate, some of this is a numbers game.

I saw this short film recently called “Less than one” which I will embed below. It is about finding a “soul mate” – the interesting thing about this is that it charts the numbers game, and this is something that you need to do too. Not...

Dutch courage, lowering inhibition, need to relax…how many times have we all said or heard these phrases in a bar or club? We say them just before we take a deep glug from a wine, beer or spirit glass. We think that alcohol will give us the courage we need to have sex with the woman or man we want without fear of not being able to perform. Yet many studies have shown that too much alcohol can bugger up our sex drives. So what’s the deal with alcoholic sex? Should we be having more or less of it?

Lowering Inhibition
If you are a naturally shy or nervous...

I don’t know about you, but both swimming costumes and bikinis tend to drive me wild. A swimming costume can look absolutely stunning on a woman. Similarly a bikini can have me drooling onto the floor if a woman walks by in it. But the sad truth of the matter is that women who wear the most revealing costumes are often the ones you would rarely date unless you got really lucky. However just because you don’t think you can get a girl in a stunning costume or thong, doesn’t mean you won’t. Women like to show off just as much as men sometimes. But the question remains; swimming costume...