Dating, and especially internet dating feels like a game of chess sometimes. Your opponent opens with the Queen’s gambit, you respond with the Knight’s Manoeuvre and eventually that castle comes out of nowhere to mate your King. How the hell did that happen? And why the hell do they give all these chess moves ridiculous names in the first place?
Those answers will have to wait for another time.
For now we want to talk about the huge game that finding a fuck buddy is and what (if any) rules there are and if you should follow them or break them.
The Game
Back in 2007, a book called ‘The Game’ was published by Neil Strauss and very quickly made waves all across the world. Men and women were up in arms at the story of how an average looking thirty something man became to be voted the ‘world’s No. 1 pick-up artist’. The book is a fascinating account of how a geeky journalist became enamoured and eventually obsessed with the art of attraction.
A lot of the women’s lib brigade decried it as ‘demeaning’, ‘sexist’ and misogynistic. Many men also thought that it was fiction and a load of bollocks.
Fortunately the rest of the men and women who read the book came to realise that Strauss had stumbled onto something that some men have naturally and others need to learn: the art of attracting and keeping a woman. And if you’re trying to find a new fuck buddy then taking a look into the world of seduction and pick up artistry wouldn’t be a bad recommendation.
How to play the game
This is going to sound incredibly sexist to some women, but the fact is 99% of the time most women want a guy to be super confident and hit on them.
This is one of the first tenets of learning about the game. In order to get the fuck buddy you want, you have to man up and 99% of the time, make the first move. Not only that, you have to be super Alpha Male and be completely comfortable with who you are and what you want. In summary this means learning to be the best possible version of you.
And that is the core of The Game.
To learn about all the routines and pick up lines you can employ to aid you in your quest to have sex with as many people as possible, I would highly recommend any guy to pick up a copy of ‘The Game’ and any woman to pick up the female version ‘The Rules’.
However none of the information in either will help you unless you remember the core principles of both; basically to be confident in who you are and 100% happy with what you want. All the detractors either haven’t read the books or worse, read them and missed the points they were trying to make.
To play the game, you have to know the game. Give it a whirl and see what fuck buddies come flying their way towards you.
Happy fucking!
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