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How to take charge in the bedroom – and why you should do it
When it comes to having sex, at any given point someone is leading the action. This is not to say that both people don’t want to have sex, not at all! In point of fact, the reason that most people would say yes to having a fuck buddy when offered is that most people want to have sex. This is regardless of gender, colour, age (if you are a legal adult of course!). Everyone wants to have a hook up, but for the hook up to happen, someone has to make it happen. There are times when two people meet, and things are so electric that the hormone driven lust takes care of everything… but even then...
If you are the dominant one – step up and take charge
This is aimed at the dominant one in any sexual scenario. This is typically a man, but it could also be any gender at all.
In any sexual encounter, generally someone needs to take charge and make a decision. In your day to day life most people like to have an input into what is happening / going on. When choosing a film to watch, you want to be part of that choice, when ordering food at a restaurant you probably want to choose your own dish, when moving in your day to day life you want to be in control of your own path. This rule does not apply to the bedroom.
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Do you need to be dominant to date online?
The general rule of thumb is that a woman wants a man to be a man. By this I mean that as a guy you need to be confident, in control without being controlling and responsive to your partner’s feelings and reactions. In a way it’s a bit of a contradiction to what you often hear many women say in public.
Many girls say they want a man to be caring and kind, but in the bedroom caring and kind just doesn’t cut it and the idea of losing control to a dominant alpha male is a huge turn on for many. But there are women who like to reverse the role and dominate a man in the bedroom....
