Our latest members: Sexy Shauna Seeks Man
With the run up to summer, spring is finally coming in, and I was surprised at the number of extra sign ups to the website that this has caused. We all know that spring/summer is the mating season. It happens in nature, and ultimately we are part of that and run on the same cycles. You know it yourself, as the weather warms up you start to notice girls every where, they all look hotter and more attractive. Suddenly your libido goes up and you really really want to get laid. It happens for men, the exact thing also happens for the girls, which is why I think we have seen a sudden spike in...
Wanna hot things up in the bedroom - Play with heat!
When it comes to sex, it is all about the sensations. I am talking very specifically here for a moment about the physical act of having sex. I am not talking about the emotional side, the spiritual side or even the logical thought based approach. I am talking about the raw, primal pleasurable side of it. I am talking about when you want to fuck.
When you take this approach and all you want to do is really fuck the other person / be fucked, then we are talking about tapping into the primordial drive that lives inside all of us. It is about channelling that, and then removing all the...
Food and sex
The connection between food and sex has always been there – and is clear even in the way that we talk about it. We might say that we are hungry for sex, or that she looks delicious. We talk about consuming and devouring the other person. Desire is the key driver in sex, and we are never more driven by desire than when it comes to our basic needs. A hungry man cares nothing for fame, wealth or status – he just wants to eat. So when it comes to enhancing desire and pushing the boundaries of how much we “want” someone in sex, it is natural to move towards the same language that we use when...
Always check in with your sex partner
We all want to be having amazing sex, let’s start out right by agreeing this. We are all on the same page, and when 2 people come together to have sex (or sometimes more than two people!) they both have the same *shared* outcome – a desire to come hard, a desire for amazing sex. So given that they both want the same thing, they are both in the right place to be helping both themselves and the other person achieve what they want. This means that if asked for help, they *will* help. That is an important place to start this article, because we are going to be asking you to talk to your sexual...
Our latest members: Genevieve – giggidy giggidy
When doing the new members spot I am usually really polite. I talk about the persons interests, where they are coming from, what they are into sexually. I may still do that later, but for now let e start with the driving thought from having just seen her profile. Giggidy giggidy!
This girl is hot, I mean she is super hot. I almost need to put a disclaimer on this and point out that when signing up to this website most girls are not at this level, because lets face it in real life most girls are not at this level. The best bit, she is hot, and she is filthy.
She is looking for...
Sex in the library
There are many people that have a fantasy about having sex in places other than the bedroom. My instinct was to say sex in “unusual” places, but in reality I do not think that having sex outside the bedroom is actually that unusual a thing! I think that most people have done it elsewhere at least a few times, and I certainly feel that the more memorable sex sessions that people have had in their lives often include at least one encounter simply because it was somewhere that was a little unusual. So what is the appeal in sex elsewhere?
The Taboo
One of the key...
Confidence in dating – remember that you are awesome
People talk often about the importance of being confident in the dating market place - and they are right to do so. There is nothing more attractive than being super confident, whether you are a man or a woman. If you walk through the world with ease, not a care in the world, fearlessly approaching whatever life hands you. Well. Damn that is hot. I mean super hot! People like to have fearless fuck buddies particularly; it leaves them confident in their ability to share the things that they are really into. To tell you about their fantasies and their sexual desires, and even then go on to...
How to not be jealous in relationships
If you are here it is likely that you are looking for the life of abundance that you so rightly deserve. You have thrown of the shakles of “one man and one woman” and have realised that really it can be however you want it to be. If you want to be sleeping with several men or woman at the same time you can absolutely do that... and that can even be during the same week period, or literally at the same time! You can have it however you want, and the secret to this is simply finding like minded people who also want to be living the same level of abundance.
One of the key things that...
Our latest members: Kris has arrived and is looking for (nighttime) loving!
It is rare to meet someone on this website who writes so politely about the act of fucking. One of the things I love about the f-buddy site is that it strips away a lot of the bullshit and pretence that surrounds the subject of sex. So many people are too stiff to talk about it, to say that you want sex by some peoples standards is considered rude rather than natural, and to say that you love sex if you are a woman is particularly “bad”. I love that people free themselves of this – and our newest member is someone who is clearly working hard to drop her previous inability to approach sex...
Kegel exercises for men: better sex guide
So you have heard of something called a Kegel exercise. You know a little about it, but not a lot. Your mate told you that it can make you better in bed. He probably said something like “it’ll make you a god damn sexual tyrannosaurus”. You were sceptical, but you decided to look it up anyway. Well fear not, I am about to tell you everything you could want to know about Kegel exercises.
What are Kegel exercises?
A Kegel exercise is an exercise where you consciously contract then relax your pelvic floor muscles. Repetition of this movement is like a press up,...