Focus on making the other person come for amazing sex
Focus on making the other person come for amazing sex
We all want to come with sex. We all want to have the amazing orgasm that gives us that huge rush of pleasure along with the calm and stopping of everything but being in that moment. We all want the rush – both men and women. What is the best way to seek that?
In our focus to achieve it – the drive to get it may actually undermine our ability to reach it as we are distracted from the moment and the other person. If we are completely focused on our own orgasm – it can lead us away from achieving it. There is...
The problem with blow jobs Part one – the Angle
This article is intrinsically negative as you can tell from the title. So in order to make sure that my position on the value of blow jobs is not misunderstood; I want to start by saying that blow jobs are unequivocally awesome. A good blow job can take a hardening penis and make it solid as a rock – to the benefit of both parties. A well timed tickle of the tongue on the tip (just below the head) can be enough to push a man over the edge into complete carnal desire, to the benefit of both parties. A blow job delivered in an unusual place, a lift, the cinema, from under the office desk...
How to overcome feeling insecure about sex
Everyone is a little insecure when it comes to having sex... or every normal person has their insecure moments at the very least. We think that this is generally a new relationship thing, that it always occurs when we first sleep with someone the fades over time. This is not true. The problems stem from different areas. With this in mind I am going to break this article up into sex in new relationships and sex in old relationships.
Sex with someone new
When you are sleeping with someone new, you are naturally going to be a little insecure about having sex...
Meet our newest member: Julie is back in the game
When I first saw the picture of our newest member I was bowled over. She is hot, and after reading her profile she is not just looking for some man love, she is starving after a long time out of the game.
Julie has recently separated from her long term partner who she got together with whilst still a teenager. After a long term relationship of years, she is now single for the first time since she was 17 years old, and ready to get back in the game. For someone in their late twenties, she is surprisingly inexperienced, having been in a strict monogamous relationship for nearly a...
For men – focus on your photos
This article is aimed primarily at men. When looking for an f-buddy, you come here, you log on and you message some people. Since 95% of the meet ups that occur have been initiated by the guy messaging the girl, men often forget that sometimes the girl is the one looking for the guy! Whilst his happens rarely in terms of the online interaction process, what will happen is that when you message a girl the first thing that a girl will look at is your photos.
As a man you will have spent time sorting out all the parts of your life. Your job, your home set up, your social groups. We...
Girls dressed demure or explicitly – they all want sex on their terms
There is this belief that in a club, if you see a girl wearing very little material and flashing a lot of skin, that she is looking for someone to sleep with. That if you are looking to hit on someone, you want to go with the girl in the short skirt first over the girl in the ankle length dress if you are looking for an easy fuck. Well I am hear to set the story straight.
If a girl goes out to a club deliberately wearing clothes that show off her best assets, that allow people to see the fine figure that she has, the curve of her breasts, the voluptuousness of her firm yet supple...
Don’t be weird – be direct
This article is aimed more at the men of this world – though it does have some applications to the ladies of this world as well.
When you see a girl that you like, I mean really like, it is hard to suppress the urge to look at her. We all have different tastes, different types of woman that we are interested in. Some people like stick thin girls that they can easily pick up and throw around the bedroom, other people go crazy for large woman with those amazing behinds of theirs. If you like big women, you probably wouldn’t take a second glance at a thin one. The opposite is true for...
I’d like to introduce you to our newest member: Ella
With flaming red curly hair that goes all the way down to her waist, our newest member Ella is here and ready to set your desire on fire with her sexy body. Aged 24, she is looking to explore sex with as many people as possible whilst she is still in her physical prime. With stunning green eyes (which is highly unusual with the red hair presuming that the hair colour is real), she has a fantastic body to match. Her hour glass figure curves in at the waist and out at the hips, and her decent sized rack gives you plenty to want to get your hands on.
She keeps herself super fit,...
You always come first
There is a bad joke that men come first in the bedroom, that women come second or not at all. Regardless of the strength or quality of the joke, there is a Tendency for men to come first in the bedroom, period. Men and women are built differently on a biological level that we have no ability to change, so let’s start by accepting that and moving on. So there are two things to be addressed here, men coming early and women coming late.
Women – learn to come, because there is only so much men can do
There is an understanding that men make women come. This is...
James marries his F-buddy!
Whilst we don’t get too many stories like this, we were so pleased by this one we decided to share it!
We were recently emailed by “James” (real username removed for privacy reasons, so for the purposes of this we are going to call him James for the rest of this article). James wanted to thank us for providing such an “effective” service (as he liked to put it). He told us he was leaving the website and deleting his profile, but wanted to make it clear that he was doing so for the *best* of reasons. He was leaving it because the service had been excellent, so good in fact that it...