Temperature and sex – how to use hot and cold to your advantage
There are many things that will affect your ability to have sex, and your enjoyment of the sex. This is always different for different people, so I am going to highlight the usual and often seen fluctuations – but remember that everyone is wonderfully different, so you may find yourself on very different ends of the scale!
Timing
Sometimes the time of day can make a really big difference. Some people are morning people, most people due to lifestyle are used to having sex in the evening. The one thing that I know can screw you over (and not screw in the positive sense) is...
It’s business time
Have you heard the song “It’s business time” by the flight of the concords? It is a song that’s about it being business time, which, as you might have guessed, is nothing to do with the making of money. That’s right, it is about having sex. Whilst it is a comedy song, it brings with it come surprisingly accurate analogies which I would like to talk to you about now.
What is brilliant about it
It begins with the man coming home, and knowing that it’s the day to get laid because its Wednesday, and that it the day that they usually have sex. It goes on to make some hilarious...
Welcome to fuck buddy 2018
Welcome to the first month of the year, 2018 has arrived and exciting times await us all! I am a huge fan of new years. They provide an opportunity for a fresh start, for new things, new people, and a whole host of new sexual adventures to be had! The new year always brings with it change. People use it as an opportunity to evaluate where they are in life and this always means that a huge number of people break up with their partners, bringing a huge number of fresh fish to the market! Whilst the busiest time for this is always valentine’s day, the holiday in new year’s comes in a close...
The advantages of not “liking” your fuck buddy
When we meet someone, and start sleeping with someone, there is often this natural feeling that we need to start to grow to like them in ways other than the simple desire to have orgasmic sex with them. We cannot help it, it is socially conditioned into us! We think that we need to start listening to their music with them, taking them to dinner, hanging out with their friends or bringing them along to meet our friends. Now we might want to do that anyway, it can be fun! However, this is not mandatory! We don’t have to progress our feelings past the point of wanting the sex. There are even...
Get your sex life on track
No matter where we are at, we are rarely where we want to be. The work life balance doesn’t exist, not really. If you are doing great at work, it is because you are neglecting your social life. If you have a rocking social life which is filled with fun, family and friends? Then your career is probably on hold or non-existent. Are you making loads of money at the moment? Than you are unlikely to have the time to spend that money in a leisurely fashion. You may have the money to travel for months, but you are never going to get the time off work to be able to do it. You get to make a...
Emotion and sex
There are many things that drive us to have sex, and many things that will alter the quality and the intensity of the sex. It is about so much more than the actual act of having sex. It is about what it is happening underneath all of that, all the elements that come together to form your sexual experience go so much further than that of just the physical aspects.
Emotion is motion
One of the biggest elements that lie underneath it all is your emotion. Emotion is fundamental to how we connect with people, how we see the world, how we interact with the other humans that cross...
Member spotlight: Meet Marie
Welcome to December – and what a month of upheaval It is turning out to be! The imminent exit of the UK from the EU and the effect that is having on the soft border between Northern Ireland and Southern Ireland is potentially catastrophic! Don’t they realise? What if someone on the south side of the bordered ended up with a fuck buddy living in Northern Ireland? Think of all the extra paper work you might have to do! A booty call could no longer be done after a night out at 2am in the morning unless you happened to have your passport or other relevant ID on you in order to get across the...
New year’s eve – one of the easiest times to get laid
If you are coming into new years and you haven’t got someone to sleep with over the holiday period, fear not! New year’s is one of the easiest times to sleep with someone. It is also the 2nd most popular time to become single, so a whole bunch of people are about to come on the market, and a bunch of them are likely looking for you!
Times of year
There are certain times of year when it is easier to get laid, and it all comes down to emotion. There are certain points in the year, when people are made to feel more insecure about being single. They feel much worse for...
Our latest members, meet Hazel
Welcome to fuck buddy Ireland, the website where we help people seeking no strings attached relationships find each other! Here at fuck buddy, we feel that having sex is more than something fun to do, we think that it is an essential human right. No one should be denied the opportunity to have sex if they want to have sex, and that is where we come in. Everyone wants to be sleeping with someone, and when 2 people sleep with each other, they both win! This means that all we have to do is help those two people find each, and then we can let nature take its course! So that is what we do....
Sex before sleep could be the key to a good night’s sleep
When we go to bed most of us have a routine of sorts. Perhaps we have a drink, then head upstairs and change into special clothes that we only wear at night. Often these are fluffy comfortable PJ’s – but for some people it is nothing at all! Whatever it is that suits you. Then maybe you brush your teeth, combe your hair. Finally some people read a book, or check their phone as a last thing before bed. Routine is a key element for many people in the secret on how to have a good night’s sleep, and sleep is a key factor in happiness. What if we were missing a really obvious option though?...