Finding the perfect sex partner takes time, but is worth the effort
Every person has an ideal sex partner. For some people that is someone that they are in a full-time relationship with, for others it is a non-monogamous set up and takes the form of finding a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits. We are all different, so what we want out of that person also varies hugely. Some of us want someone to lead and be dominating, others want someone to dominate. Some of us want someone very vanilla, someone with little imagination that likes routine and enjoys things when they are simple and without complication. Then there are the drama seekers of the world,...
Hitting on people in the street works
We have all had moments when we have been walking down the street and we have just seen someone and been bowled over by their beauty. Quite often this is not conventional beauty, it is not necessarily that they look like a super model or an A-list celebrity. There will be something about them that just seems, well, super sexy. Usually what happens then we see this, is that we watch them walk on by, and then the moment passes. That is the end of it. However, as I have learned, it does not have to be the end of things!
If you see someone in the street and you like them, why not hit on...
Using private porn for foreplay
The quality of your sex can, for the most part, be directly measured against the quality of the foreplay. FACT. Most people fail to understand how direct a connection there is between the foreplay and the actual sex itself. Pleasure, orgasm, even the function of the sexual organs themselves are all controlled by the brain. To have the greatest sex of your life requires a certain state of mind, and that is where foreplay comes in. “Fore” means to come in front of, it is the “play” that happens infront of, or before, the sex itself. For most people then when they think foreplay they are...
It's not the size of the boat, it is the motion of the ocean
We are obsessed with size in many areas of our life. We all want to have climbed the biggest mountain, the tallest tower. We want to have partied for the longest night, danced the hardest, visited the biggest mega club. We want to have drunk the most alcohol, to have been the most smashed that one could be. We want to have had the most explosive orgasm, the most uncontrollable crazy night of sex ever. All of these are valid desires, and I am in no criticising or undermining the value or validity in them. In many ways I would encourage them, for these are rooted in the desire to live life,...
Why revealing less is more
The saying that “less is more” is one that used in many areas. People use it in business, in pleasure. Artists use it when creating elaborate paintings, negotiators apply this when giving information to their counterparts as to what they want. When it comes to being sexy, this phrase has never been more true.
You might be setting yourself up for a number of reasons, the most likely is that of a photo. Perhaps you want to take a pic to send to your fuck buddy, or to help convert a friend into a friend with benefits. Perhaps you are looking for a hook up on a casual dating website,...
Why getting good at blow jobs is a life investment
We all love sex. It is one of the most natural things to do. It is warm, pleasurable, healthy to perform physically, brings people together mentally, is a great way to destress, and ultimately is one of the nicest things you can possibly do. There is nothing quite like it. Sex is the best. If more people had more sex, there would be world peace.
Sex is something that comes naturally to us. We have been doing it for thousands of years, and over that time we have gotten very good at it! That being said, we got good at the sex, I am not sure how “naturally” good we are at the foreplay...
Summer is here, sex is served
The summer is here, and sex is served! When the weather warms up, the number of people that are getting laid each week goes up. Don’t believe me? Think out this for a moment. Our desire to have sex comes from a deep-seated, deep routed hard coded desire to procreate. It is hardcoded into us, we cannot escape nor can we deny this. It simply is. This desire is thousands of years old, and as such exists from before the modern and very new inventions of electricity, central heating and imported foods, all of which have destroyed our need to move with the seasons. We are able to live our lives...
Get good at sex – top three tasks
There are certain things in life that we learn naturally without making effort in order to achieve them. No one really remembers having to try to learn to walk, or talk, but these are complex actions that require a lot of learning and co-ordination, yet we do them without thinking about them, and without considering the effort that went into the task of getting good at them.
Other things have to be learnt, but some people are naturals in different areas. Some people are naturally skilled at dancing or working with their bodies. Other people are naturally brainy, and do very well with...
Top three things to do before having sex
Whether you are meeting up for a traditional date, or you are hanging out with someone for a one-night stand, most people do something before having sex. This is not mandatory at all. Some of the best fuck buddy relationships come when people are ready and willing to jump into bed with each other at a moment’s notice, when they are in lust enough to want to rip the clothes from each other’s bodies with out any need for the “prelims” as I think of them (preliminary acts to the main event). This is rare though, and even when it does manifest, it rarely lasts. Things calm down over time, and...
Why is there always a pause before the sex starts?
It is very rare that you meet up with someone and jump straight in the sack. In the films, characters often meet up, and they are taking each other clothes off during the small talk stages. Sadly this does not reflect life. When you meet up, there is a process of spending time together before you jump into the sack, a time of acclimatisation. This is no bad thing. Half of orgasm is about the state of your mind and emotions, and this crucial time gives you the space to “warm” up your partner. It does not matter how much they want the sex, or even how in agreement you are on it! This could...