Why are men obsessed with sex?
According to a survey men would spend at least 4 hours a day having sex and a maximum of 3 working. We know that pretty much most men spend at least 2 hours a day thinking about sex. Why is this? Well simply put men are encouraged to compete with each other from a very young age. We are trained that emotional connections signify ‘weakness’ and opening ourselves up any such connection could weaken us greatly. So when we have sex and experience the warmth and pleasure of a naked hot body next to us all these repressed feelings shoot out. Sex can suddenly become an addiction. All of a...
The Secret Shame of a Fuck Buddy
Casual sex. One night stand. Hook up. These terms dance about a phrase that we embrace but that modern western society still has trouble accepting. The term “Fuck buddy” still sounds seedy to many people. Yet it has the same connotations and meaning as the terms ‘casual sex’ and ‘hook up’ do. Why then do people still feel like they have to hide behind what they consider a more socially acceptable term? Isn’t a spade a spade?
There is a difference
According to several lifestyle magazines, dating apps and the commentaries there is indeed a difference in...
The role of Porn in casual sex
Men are often accused of being addicted to porn but several studies published worldwide have shown women to be as equally in love with porn. We love porn mostly because it can be an aphrodisiac to casual sex. Like anything used excessively of course we recognise that it can be harmful but like the old saying goes “everything in moderation”.
Why is porn great?
At its best porn is a gushing celebration of the human body in all its different shapes and styles. At its worst porn can be an addictive obsession that infiltrates your life in a very bad way. The...
Why repressing your sexual urges is wrong
Despite the huge sexual revolution that occurred in the west in the past 60 years large numbers of us still work hard to suppress our sexual desires. Sex is one of the most natural functions of human biology. To suppress it is to invite chaos and disorder into society. You only need to look at the state of countries with gender and sexual repression laws to see how bad things can get.
Who’s responsible for this?
At first people point the finger of blame at religious sensibilities but as we now live in a more secular society that claim becomes more and...
Sociosexuality
At first glance sociosexuality sounds like a new type of sexual orientation and in a sense, it is. Rather than being an adjective to describe your gender preference sociosexuality refers more to your social attitude towards sex.
What’s the point of discussing it here?
As F-Buddy is a site designed to help people hook up for casual encounters sociosexuality is something very important to look at. It can play a big part in how much or how little you are able to enjoy casual sex. We want everyone who uses this site to enjoy it but the only way to do that is...
Ejaculation Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts
One of those things that people don’t often talk about is what happens after you come? Do you snuggle together a bit or do you just tidy up and leave quietly? Ejaculation can be wonderfully messy but if the idea of a man coming on your face or a woman squirting on your bed leaves you cold, then you probably need to consider your options.
Here are some rules to help you maintain your manners in all situations
1. Coming inside her
First you need to be clear of the birth control and STI situation. An unwanted pregnancy or STI are not something you...
What are the hottest things you can say to a man during sex?
Over on F-Buddy USA we’ve recently been talking about the hottest things you can say to a partner in (and out of) bed during sex. If you want to know what to say to a woman to get her juicier then a water melon head over to F-Buddy USA to read the post. Right now we’re going to give you ladies a few tips to get the guys going.
Top hottest things you can say to a man
1. “I’m coming!”
Two little words (if you don’t count the verbal contraction)...
How to deal with sexual rejection
No one likes to ask the difficult questions when it comes to sex, which is why we write this blog. We’re not naïve enough to think that every hook up you have is going to be amazing. We are here to try and make sure that when you do hook up you have the best possible chance of making it amazing. But biology is biology and sometimes when you meet someone in person the connection you think you felt so strongly online just isn’t there.
So here’s how to deal with sexual rejection because at some point it will happen to you.
Sexual Rejection – How to handle it...
What’s the worst sex you’ve ever had?
To ensure you have the best sex ever whilst using F-Buddy it’s important to know about some of the experiences that aren’t that great. Not only do they make for entertaining reading, but they also serves as reminders of what you should and shouldn’t do when having sex. Good sex comes with lots of practice…bad sex comes from not thinking properly.
1. Puke Dick
Just the title should be enough to put you off. This has happened to many people so beware!
“After a boozy night out with my boyfriend we went back to his and started getting horny....
What’s the best sex you’ve ever had?
Everyone, everywhere at some point has had this question bounce around their head. It can be equally fun and ridiculous to think about. It’s surprising the amount of people who lie about it as well (usually so as not to offend or upset a current or ex lover)
It is a hard question – in both senses of the word – for all our members to figure out. I actually tried to think of my best time when pondering the question and I admit to being a little stumped. There have been some great experiences for me and ones that like most people I would rather forget. It’s difficult to choose a...